Tuesday, July 1, 2008

I love the red, white and blue!

The Fourth of July has wonderful associated memories from many, many years of celebrating it! I celebrate the whole month with red, white, and blue trimmings!!

We have always had an annual fourth of July picnic at the family farm. We all came to celebrate--close relatives, shirt tail relatives, and friends who needed a family with whom to celebrate. The farm is the childhood home of my mother and her family. As an adult, her brother Ted, owned and operated it until his death two years ago, at age 96.


"Young" Ted, Uncle Ted, Barb, and Jim (his children)

Ina, a family friend chatting with Uncle Ted

Everyone should have a farm to visit. Being there, especially on the Fourth, was such a piece of Americana. It is something that money cannot buy.




There is the farm house, sitting on the grassy lawn. (The same lawn my parents were married on seventy seven years ago!) On the side is a warm inviting covered patio. The desserts are always on a round table on the patio.




Tables and chairs and benches are interspersed on the side lawn under the trees. The pot luck dishes are on two long tables under one of the trees. Out back is the pasture land, the corral, the barn and other out buildings. All are decorated for this wonderful celebration of family and country!




There is a splendid horsy swing which holds two children at a time. It remains busy most of the afternoon.


The old John Deere gets hitched up and its time for the kids to get a hay ride.



They are filled with glee and love every minute of the day. If they are especially fortunate, “young” Ted might let them pretend to drive the tractor!!



Today we no longer have our annual fourth of July picnic. With our dear Patriarch gone, it lost its luster when we had one last picnic after his passing. However, the farm is alive and well. The lands and barn are leased to two “country gentlemen” who raise cows. The house is leased to a couple who are loving living in a home with so much rich history.

My memories go back many years in my mind’s eye--I can picture my Dad, along with other uncles and cousins, leaning on the corral fence--all now with the Lord.

I stand in the bedroom which was my mother’s--I imagine her curled up with one of her beloved books, reading, her favorite pastime as a girl.

Then I can see my dear Mom, who LOVED this picnic more than anything else all year, sitting there with her precious brother Ted, and his wife, our Aunt Lou. Now they, also, have joined the hosts of heaven....and so life goes on and suddenly..... I am the oldest one in the family of cousins and siblings!!

What a heritage we have had!!

Wonderful parents!

Wonderful family!

Wonderful Lord!!

We have been blessed!

We are blessed!!

Happy Fourth of July!!!!!

13 comments:

Ruthie said...

So good to have you back again. You were missed.
I love those pictures of the farm - reminds me of times I spent on the farm of friends after coming home from China. So Americana!! I guess we of the older generation now need to make new memories for our grandkids. (Doesn't it seem funny to now BE that older generation???) After both our parents went to be with the Lord, and then the aunts and uncles, it was a strange feeling to suddenly be the oldest generation!
Blessings and Happy 4th.
Ruthie

Kim said...

Glad to see you back! Looks like lots of fun. You are indeed blessed!

papel1 said...

Your pictures are truly wonderful. The picnic sounds like it was a wonderful occasion. Happy Fourth of July.
Judy

Jill said...

I've just discovered your blogs via 2Sketches4You, and I've enjoyed all that I've read so far. However, some of your postings really should have a warning that the reader will need a box of Kleenex! I especially appreciated your strong testimony post. God bless you and Happy 4th.

Margie said...

Hi Joan, So glad to see you back again!!! :-) The picnics sounds wonderful and full of fun and joyous memeories! What would life be like without those memories? Happy 4th to you too!!!

Blessings,
Margie

Kristy said...

I loved, loved, LOVED this post so much!!!!!!!
As we are preparing for our picnic on the farm, you have made me realize how many precious memories my children will have.......
We try to make this an annual event - and I'm excited to be able to glean some ideas from your post!
You memories from this farm make my heart smile......
Blessings ~
ps - have Gaye give me a call when ever you gals want to come up for a visit!!!! :o)

Ruthie said...

Glad you came by. When you come to visit your nephew in CO, let me know and we'll have to plan a get-to-gether. That'd be fun.
Have a wonderful 4th!

The Dairy Wife said...

Joan, What a wonderful post.

Reading this reminds me of a poem my Dad wrote for us kids called, "The Tree of Life"

It's about becoming the top limb when the limbs above you fall. I have it framed and on my wall. My Dad is now the top limb and his health isn't the best. I'm not looking forward to being the top limb when he falls.

I'll email you the poem soon.

your friend,
Tanya

Mary Isabella said...

Your words and pictures made me feel as though I was at the picnic.....Mary

Amy said...

Dear Joan,
This was so sweet. I was sad at the end to learn that the tradition stopped, but I know there is a season for everything! What special special memories! You have such a rich family heritage.
I'm happy you're blogging again. We're doing well...packing up for the move at the end of July, and excited about Peru in October. If there's anything you'd like to send to Bert and Colleen we'd be happy to take it down.
By the way, if you have any tips about time management, scheduling, or organization that you think might help a not naturally organized and routine, but trying really hard girl it would be more than welcome. I'm doing pretty well so far (for me)...but have a long way to go! I'm determined to use the time well. I do feel such a weight off of my shoulders now that I'm out of school!
It's great to hear from you again!
Many blessings,
Amy

Joanne said...

Joan,

Welcome back! I hope you had a wonderful blog break. I can't begin to tell you what joy your pictures gave me from your 4th of July. The simple Americana, the love of family and the common thread of Jesus.

Beautifully simple and simply beautiful.

You are so right, you are blessed.

Joanne :O)

Wendi said...

Hi Joan thank you so much for stopping by my blog and leaving me such a lovely message, I have also enjoyed reading about your memories, you have a lovely family and thankyou for sharing it with us,I love my little grandson to bits and he just seems to be growing so quick, today he read me a book in French it was just magical he has become fluent in French and English now and I am so proud
I have book marked your blog to look at too

Amy said...

Joan,
I loved this story!! What history in that house!! It is filled with many memories that you can pass along with your words and photos.
:)AMY